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When Colby's Lyn Mikel Brown and Harvard's Carol
Gilligan published Meeting at the Crossroads: Women's Psychology and Girls'
Development in 1992, they were surprised at the ensuing discussion. Instead
of focusing on the strong voices Brown and Gilligan found among the girls at
the Laurel School in Ohio, readers homed in on the girls who negotiated
adolescence by falling silent. Books such as Reviving Ophelia followed,
presenting a relentlessly gloomy picture of adolescent girls in verbal
shut-down.
In the preface to her new book, Raising Their Voices: The Politics of
Girls' Anger (Harvard University Press, 1998), Brown acknowledges that the
earlier volume described a turning point at which some girls begin to
experience "the loss of voice, the narrowing of desires and expectations, the
capitulation to conventional notions of femininity."
But, she says, some girls "actively resist dominant cultural notions of
femininity, particularly at the edge of adolescence." This finding is at the
center of Raising Their Voices, accompanied by an examination of the
role class as opposed to race plays in girls' views of themselves and
their futures.
Brown, associate professor of education and human development and women's
studies at Colby, studied two small groups of Maine girls, one rural and
working class or working poor, the other professional class and living in a
small city. All of the girls were white, and all attended junior high school.
Brown, herself white and a product of a rural Maine "middle-class family with a
working-class core," writes that part of her motivation for placing her study
in Maine and for choosing the two groups was that, too often, discussions of
girls' development are predicated on the idea "that to be white is to be middle
class and privileged and that to be poor or working class is to be of color."
(Indeed, even the working-class girls in the study pegged Brown as a
white-collar academic, despite her strong affinity with them.)
Brown carefully documents the differences between the two groups. The
"Mansfield" girls (working poor, working class) tended to express anger and
aggression more easily than their "Acadia" (middle and professional class)
counterparts. Mansfield girls frequently expressed admiration for their
mothers' toughness and resilience in the face of economic uncertainty, abusive
relationships and/or class limitations. They valued loyalty among friends and
they expressed their feelings, including anger, more readily than their
wealthier counterparts. They also, tellingly, longed for financial and social
success but assumed they would not get them. Asked what one thing she could see
happening to her in the future that she wished were different, "Rachel" says,
"Of course I would want a lot of money, but that's not going to be possible, so
I would want enough money. That's what I want in the future, but I don't think
I'm gonna have it. I really don't." Why not? she is asked. Because of your
education? Because of the economy? Because you're a woman? "Because I'm kind of
stupid . . . basically," she says.
Thirteen-year-old "Robin," who lives in Acadia, is representative of the
choices faced by the girls there. Throughout her life, she believes, she has
received broadcasts from the culture at large about what nice, middle-class
girls should be like: that airhead gum-chewers with high-pitched voices and a
knack for clinging to boys are preferred; that skateboarders (like herself) who
wear oversize shirts, baggy shorts and mismatched sneakers need not apply; and
that if you must read books, keep them to yourself. Acadia is a small city with
a college, a handful of moribund industries and a struggling downtown, and
Robin is a daughter of the professional class. Her future comes in a rainbow
spectrum: higher education, career, family, all or none of the above. But in
order to seize her choices Robin must define herself. At this juncture she and
her peers can only describe what they are not--not popular, not airheads, not
burnouts, not cut-ups, not the kind of kids who win attention easily. The
situation drives them mad, yet "despite their awareness of different standards,
expectations and treatment, these white middle-class girls generally espouse a
strong belief in the American Dream," Brown writes. "By and large they trust
their teachers and other authorities to be fair, to judge them on their merits;
they firmly believe that hard work and perseverance . . . will eventually yield
a happy and prosperous life."
So, Brown says, it's not surprising that the Acadia girls are most upset and
confused when facts dispute image, such as when the lout in the back of the
room gets all of the teacher's time and attention. "The girls constantly
struggle," she says, "with a tension between what they are told, and indeed
practice religiously, and what they see and hear in the public world of their
school."
The two groups appear to share common experiences when it comes to expressing
anger. For all girls anger is unacceptable. But their motivations for
suppressing fury are very different.
In Acadia, anger, though deeply felt, is not to be loosed on friends, family
or teachers. Mansfield girls feel freer to show anger in public, even at
school, although that behavior tends to land them in trouble. Seeing school not
as a pathway to the future but as a phenomenon of the here and now, Mansfield
girls are less invested in earning teachers' approval. But where it counts--in
their relationships with one another and with their families--Mansfield girls
keep their cool.
One subtle and disturbing point Brown makes about both groups of girls is that
they are standard-bearers for the stereotypes that infuriate them. A girl like
Robin--smart, feisty, confused, the kind you admire but might want to throttle
sometimes--leans toward accepting her social group's definition of girl
behavior and sets herself apart from it. Robin wants to be seen as a "person,"
not as a "girl." She buys into the notion that to be Robin is to be an un-girl.
According to Brown, Robin "and a small cadre of her close female friends seem
to be making their own contradictory and fragmented way," but for now Robin is
something of a misogynist.
"Girls' ventriloquation of the dominant culture's denigration of femininity
and female relationships threatens to disconnect them from other girls," Brown
writes.
In its lively and poignant record of girls' emotions on the cusp of womanhood,
Raising Their Voices makes it clear that, whether they say so or not,
girls feel and contend with a full range of emotions. Not shut down but often
underground, girls seem to exist in a state of tension between knowing and
believing. That girls feel anger and recognize the contradictions inherent in
their lives is, as Brown says, too important a consideration to be shunted
aside. But there also is persistent shame in the knowledge that some girls--of
different classes and for a variety of reasons--not only feel powerless to
change the status quo but take it to heart.
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