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Graduates Urged to Find Courage, Dispel Fears Messages of courage dominated Colby's 185th Commencement Sunday, May 28.
Following Chapuredima's spirited address that began with African drumming and ended with a standing ovation, Quindlen called courage "the secret of life." "You already know how important courage is," she said. "After all, you chose as your class speaker someone from a small village in Zimbabwe who got on a plane to transcend hemispheres, customs, and cultures to come to Colby College. You can look at him and know that a flying leap of fearlessness is possible."
"The voices of conformity speak so loudly out there. Don't listen. People will tell you what you ought to think and how you ought to feel. They will tell you what to read and how to live. They will urge you to take jobs that they themselves loathe and to follow safe paths that they themselves find tedious," she said. "When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you." As if anticipating Quindlen's theme, Chapuredima began his speech by sharing his realization that, to deliver the class speech, he did not need to conform to any formula. "I'm going to be myself," he declared. "The next problem though is . . . me. As you can hear I have a very thick accent. I've been here for four years but I haven't done much to try to speak like the rest of you. I guess I've been busy trying to stay warm."
An Oak Scholar at Colby, Chapuredima thanked the benefactors of his scholarship, Alan and Jette Parker, who, by coincidence, were on stage to receive an honorary degree. To his surprise, Chapuredima received another honor: Colby's Randall J. Condon Medal, the only prize presented at commencement, for his commitment to constructive citizenship. The class marshal and valedictorian, Matthew M. Meredith of Tabernacle, N.J., led the procession of seniors. |